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Tuesday 26 April 2011

general thoughts and musings on getting pregnant

At school we are taught, if you EVER have sex without protection YOU WILL get pregnant straight away and it will ruin your life forever.

Before we started trying, I assumed it would happen for us straight away. Of course, I had heard of people having trouble conceiving, but that was them not us. We were in our late twenties, had the correct BMI, healthy, liked exercising and no-one in either family had fertility problems to the best of our knowledge. When we tried, we would fall quickly, I would have a trouble-free pregnancy and a quick birth.

Getting pregnant is not always easy. It is easy for most but not all. I should have known we would have problems. It is just typical.

We have been a couple for 10 years now, why the hell did we not start trying 5 years ago? Oh the arrogance of youth. I remember saying to him (a year before we started trying), "I think we should try in January, that way we can have the baby before Christmas, I don't want to be pregnant over Christmas."

Now, I don't care when I am pregnant as long as it happens. I really hope it does and that this is a blog with a happy ending.

3 comments:

  1. Hi! Thanks for visiting me and linking to me.

    I like the way you write - "It is just typical" had me laughing, because I could hear myself saying it too. I look forward to reading you.

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  2. I think I truly believed the same thing when I was at the beginning of this whole thing - that ANY time you have sex without protection, you absolutely WILL get pregnant. That's the impression I got in school, that's what happens on TV... so it must be true.

    Ha!

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  3. I just got my pregnancy test result and guess what, it was positive. It confirms I am 10 weeks pregnant after 5 years of Agony and trips to different hospitals and specialists. But unfortunately, I am sad, while I am supposed to be glad, I am sad because I would have been pregnant earlier than now, if I never listen only to my friend advice, I should have gotten my own baby earlier, believe in nature, i had Blocked Fallopian Tube I came across it success story of the great Eka who help women conceive with his spiritual method. I have bilateral blocked fallopian tubes and my doctor flush the tubes but it got blocked again and I got frustrated with the procedure and decided to research about other options for opening fallopian tube, after fail attempts to open it by doing the flushing my doc suggested. I did research online and I came across Eka email (dreka14demons@gmail.com) and his work, every information seems right to me and I was pleased, I told my doctor about the product I discover but he said there is no herbs and spiritual cleanse that can unblock tube naturally. I listen to him and went for IVF and after 2 failed attempts and total waste of money. I decided on my own to try DR Eka for his spiritual cleanse and pregnancy spell I got pregnant in 9 weeks. After this, my doc is steel amazed at this, I advise every other woman with fallopian tube issues ,pcos and other infertility problem to do their research and don’t base your option only on anyone’s advice, I did and it resulted in waste of money and time, contact Dr Eka on email: (dreka14demons@gmail.com) because I have discover DR Eka long time ago and I would have been pregnant earlier if I follow my heart and did the spell but I disregard it because of my doctor’s advice and I am annoyed at myself but at the same time I am happy that I made the wise decision by going back to Dr Eka for spiritual help. Now I am a strong believer of spiritual and natural medicine. Thank You. Contact Dr Eka on email for help on email: (dreka14demons@gmail.com).....

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