I went to the Drs yesterday and she was lovely. She has referred me to King's in London, which has a good rep and a shorter waiting list than the other hospital I was referred to. She said that I may not need the lap and dye, and is confident that if the first consultant told me that that I don't need one then the King's would probably be OK with that.
I feel so relieved, I didn't realise it, but I was worrying about this sub-consciously. Just have to wait for my appointment letter from King's now.